Hate is an emotion that any adult can use as a tool. During your divorce process, you will usually find that all your good intentions have been twisted by your wife. At this time, turning the love into hate by the “Hate My Wife” tactic might give you surprising results. Why does it work? The...
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Fathers rights to visitation: Breaking the lies that “I don’t want to see Daddy”
It’s a father’s day joke that a child said “I don’t want to see Daddy”. Fathers rights to visitation are guaranteed under the law but are often mishandled by the family court. It’s unbelievably common for children to experience parental alienation against the father during or after a divorce. This can happen when the wife...
Co-parenting counseling: Fathers must know why it might not work as well as they thought
At the beginning of the divorce, many father will like to be friendly and kind at first. He even paid for co-parenting counseling in preparation for the new post-divorce parenting role. He will try to use reasonable logic to resolve he and his wife’s problems. He wish that the two will still be a good...
Counselor family on way to divorce: why fathers should hire a counselor for your kids FIRST
In family court, evidences from professionals (such as counselor family child therapists, etc.) are often called in to help the judge make decision. For instance, one parent can hire their own child therapist during a divorce. A child therapist can provide an independent evaluation of the child’s needs and offer recommendations for the child’s best...
Fathers falsely accused of domestic violence: how to protect yourself against wife lying
In the divorce cases we have seen fathers struggle with (some fathers falsely accused of domestic violence), one of the most frequently used help words is “smeared”, “framed”, “slandered”, and “fake allegations”. This kind of thing happens often. The strange thing is that even if this is the case, the courts are often easily convinced....
At-fault divorce states and countries and their surge in false accusations
What is At-fault divorce and what does it has to do with a father’s divorce? What are the at-fault divorce states and countries? At-fault divorce is a legal concept where one spouse can file for divorce and claim that the other spouse is at fault for the breakdown of the marriage. In such cases, the...
Masculinity qualities that make men lose their divorce battle! Toxic Masculinity re-explained
Toxic masculinity qualities refers to cultural norms and societal expectations that encourage men to behave in certain ways, such as being aggressive, unemotional, and dominant, which can lead to harmful behaviors such as violence and abuse. This can cause harm not only to those around them, but also to the men themselves, who may feel...
HelpDads vs. father’s right groups
Father’s right groups are diverse. There are different groups having different proposals. HelpDads stands out at a very different angle with a single for-good purpose of “helping fathers”. Why should we help fathers? Why do we want to target this group of people (Dads) to help? Can you help a man who is not a...
Why fathers are important? Why should we Help Dads?
It is not easy to explain why fathers are important in a short paragraph. Fathers play a crucial role in the development and well-being of their children. They provide emotional support, guidance, and financial stability, and they help to shape children’s values, behaviors, and self-esteem. Research has also shown that children with involved and supportive...
Parental Alienation Lawyers: the “Grab First Strategy” against Fathers
There is a strategy that parental alienation lawyers may or may not tell a divorcing father. “Grab First Strategy” is arguably the most controversial and yet amazingly effective strategy to put a parent in a preferred position in terms of child custody. Theoretically speaking, when the father and mother are divorced, their children should be...